Anonymous said: how can i get my wife to dominate me
Have you thought about asking her? Does she even know what BDSM is? My sub is the one who introduced me to this lifestyle and it was actually a very long process. Ask her, show her and be patient with her while she figures out what she’s comfortable with. If she’s not totally dominant (like I am) then maybe just find a compromise. Find an act of dominance she’s comfortable with and work with it. Some pretty low key stuff subby and I like to do is ball busting (not quite as extreme as others), spanking (with various objects), and rope play. If I tie subby up and simply ride him while saying all the right things, it’s sometimes way better than a whole session.